My parents want us to move our wedding date. How can I let them know that this is our decision? - lucky days to get married in 2010
My friend and I are together for 7 years. We have at the wedding, so we can finish university and have our training on the road. Since its release, I was able to find work, but my friend was not so lucky. We both have already saved money in the last 4 years to start our life together and was very active in their search for work, so you can continue to contribute to the financing of the relationship. My parents think that we have no financial perspective as a couple and say that we need for the wedding day in 2010, be postponed. My friend and I want to get married on our anniversary (we've always intended to do). Happened in 2009, our anniversary falling on a Saturday, and would be perfect for me and my familymber. We are in love since we met 7 years ago and waited patiently to get married at last. We have done everything our parents have done to us, if not live together after marriage, the effort even if they separate more emotional for us. We respect your wishes, but at the same time, you want this special day for everyone, including us. Even if they are not working, my friend and I are ready for the office, get married and even formed an estimate of the quantity of living for us. I do not think you could endure emotionally, to be separated for a year (because we want our marriage to be on our anniversary). How can my parents that even though we likeand respect their opinions, we want our marriage on our anniversary this year?
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Lucky Days To Get Married In 2010 My Parents Want Us To Move Our Wedding Date. How Can I Let Them Know That This Is Our Decision?
3 comments:
Now is the time to really and truly fulfill their parents. Why you should respect your wishes? This is YOUR (ie, you and your little friends) to the wedding, the decision of your life. They had their chance. If you want to get married, in 2009, the anniversary of Nevermind you your happiness and what your parents! Tell them: "I know what you feel, but both he and I agree. Let's start going to the wedding for this year." In other words, it is a point at the end. Take control of your life.
Say firmly, but fine.
If you were already married and her husband lost his job, should leave his parents? Of course not! This happens in a marriage, and you can not put your life on "hold" until things are better "because they will never be perfect!
His parents worried about you begin with your right foot to. I'm getting. But it's your call. They are now grown up. Tell them you made your decision and are not willing to yield. They respect you more.
I think it's crazy not to live together before marriage. Combining the finance, adaptation to unmarried couples who are responsible for what in this housework, you learn the habits of the other boring (lol used) - which is responsible for taking any of great results. My husband and I lived together account for about 7 years before the wedding (2-28-09). We had not married, the typical problems of the young, because we are already good marriage, well-oiled machine. lol To each his own.
Good luck!
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